Sometimes in this homeschooling journey daily life can be so frustrating.
Sometimes it just seems like nothing is getting done and the kids are arguing over everything and tempers are flaring and everyone is unhappy.
But that is only sometimes.
The majority of the time life is pretty routine with the normal daily hiccups.
For us those normal daily hiccups tend to include Bug arguing with me about whether or not he actually "needs school" - oh yes, he believes he is smart enough without it.
Boy is he wrong!
I get that the kid is intelligent, but when he reaches true genius status it will be when he actually has learned that
life will always involve learning.
Anyways, those arguments can sometimes cause the whole day to go bust. He will decide he doesn't need to do his work and totally shut me out and when I try to press on he will freak out and it is only after massive amounts of deep breathing (so as to not go insane) and a lot of discussion that we will finally move forward on a subject and he will finish his work.
I'm not saying that every day has to have these long, drawn out, exhausting, argumentative sessions... But lately a lot of them have.
But then every once in a while I get a day like today.
Today... Bug sat down. Started his work. Listened intently to every word I said. Paid attention. Smiled. Did every task set forth. Smiled more. Seemed to enjoy every bit of it.
And then said, because he knows he is behaving in a way that makes me happy, "Wow, Mommy, it's 10:30 and I didn't argue once."
Yep, that was today. No arguing with me. No yelling.
No telling me he was too smart and already knew what I was teaching him anyway (boy he is full of himself at times - but I love him).
And more importantly...
No flipping out over paper being faced the wrong direction or the wrong color pen being on the table, or his sister being too noisy, or the sun being too bright, or being too warm, or too cold, or thinking he doesn't need to review something, or not liking that I asked him to number a paper, or anything else that he could come up with to argue and get upset over.
Nope, today he was happy as a clam and just did his work.
And at 10:30 he made his announcement... And do you know what I said to him?
I said, "And that, my boy, is why you are already done for the day and you can now go outside and play in the snow. Isn't it great to just get it done?"
He smiled. I smiled.
Because some days just make you smile.